Style & Substance: On the Napoleon Complex

Inner beauty, which is what makes the dating ultimately work out, is revealed as we get to know someone. We believe that if height is an awkward situation for her, she will not accept the date or you will find very soon into the dating if it is an issue…invite her out with confidence, not awkwardness.

In meeting women or once you are dating, some things to remember:

• Don’t talk about your height as if it is something you want focus attention on, even joking about it can get old!

• Take it slow, keep it light, have fun and don’t be needy!

• Do figure out ways to naturally compensate for what you feel may be your biggest weakness…by keeping the traditional gender roles in place to a certain degree; no matter what independent girls say….they DO like to feel feminine, listened to, and protected. This can be done in many ways like planning fun and unique dates, listening, contributing and following up on conversations, opening doors, carrying groceries – courtesy and kindness always win.

Our advice is to ask her on that date. Be confident in who you are. If she is the great person you perceive her to be, chances are she will say yes.

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Michele Armani and Sally Meisenheimer

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